Custody

A number of custody arrangements are possible:
  • Joint Legal Custody:  parents communicate and cooperate in mutual decision-making regarding major medical, educational, religious, and similar issues.
  • Joint Physical Custody: the child lives with one parent part of the time and the other parent part of the time, although not necessarily equal amounts of time.
  • Primary Physical Custody: the child lives primarily with one parent.
  • Sole Custody: the child lives with one parent and that parent is responsible for all major decision-making.

Custody Factors

Parents are encouraged to reach their own agreements regarding custody. When parents cannot agree, the court must decide by considering all of the following factors of the Michigan Child Custody Act:

  1. The love, affection, and other emotional ties existing between the parties involved and the child.The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to give the child love, affection, and guidance and the continuation of the educating and raising of the child in its religion and creed, if any.
  2. The capacity and disposition of the parties involved to provide the child with food, clothing, medical care and other remedial care recognized and permitted under the laws of this state in place of medical care, and other material needs.
  3. The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment, and the desirability of maintaining continuity.
  4. The permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial home or homes.
  5. The moral fitness of the parties involved.
  6. The mental and physical health of the parties involved.
  7. The home, school, and community record of the child.
  8. The reasonable preference of the child, if the court deems the child to be of sufficient age to express a preference.
  9. The willingness and ability of each of the parents to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent/child relationship between the child and the other parent.
  10. Domestic violence, regardless of whether the violence was directed against or witnessed by the child.
  11. Any other factor considered by the court relevant to a particular child custody dispute.

Requesting a Change in Custody
If the parties do not agree to a custody arrangement, then a party may file a motion requesting a custody arrangement.  The motion may be filed by the party (Pro Se) or by the party's attorney.  It is important to note that custody cases involve complex issues and you may wish to have an attorney represent you.  If you decide to file your own motion, forms and instructions are available at the Friend of the Court office.  A $100.00 filing fee is required. The Friend of the Court cannot file a motion for you, nor can they provide you with an attorney.

Friend of the Court's Role
The Friend of the Court's role in custody issues is to offer mediation services to the parties as an alternative method of dispute resolution. If the custody issue goes to court, then the Friend of the Court is often directed to conduct an evaluation and file a written report and recommendation based on the factors listed in the Michigan Child Custody Act.  Each party is entitled to receive a copy of the Friend of the Court's report and recommendation.

Custody Agreements
If the parties agree to a custody arrangement, the Friend of the Court will prepare a stipulation and order at no cost to the parties.

Changing Domicile
In most cases, the domicile of a child may not be removed from the State of Michigan without the approval of the court. If the parents agree to change the domicile of the child, the Friend of the Court will prepare a stipulation and order at no cost to the parties. If the parties are not in agreement, then a party may file a motion through an attorney or by using a Motion Regarding Domicile form (Pro Se) from the Friend of the Court. A filing fee is required. Four factors are considered by the Court to determine whether changing domicile is in the best interest of the child: (1) whether the prospective move has the capacity to improve the quality of life for both the custodial parent and the child, (2) whether the move is inspired by the custodial parent desire to defeat or frustrate parenting time by the noncustodial parent and whether the custodial parent is likely to comply with the substitute parenting time orders where he or she is no longer subject to the jurisdiction of the courts of this state, (3) the extent to which the noncustodial parent, in resisting the move, is motivated by the desire to secure a financial advantage in respect of a continuing support obligation, and (4) the degree to which the court is satisfied that there is a realistic opportunity for parenting time in lieu of the weekly pattern which can provide an adequate basis for preserving and fostering the parental relationship with the noncustodial parent if removal is allowed.


Effective January 9, 2001, in addition to the change of domicile requirement, a parent of a child whose custody is governed by a court order shall not change the legal residence of the child to a location that is more than 100 miles from the child's other legal residence at the time of the commencement of the action in which the order is issued. Both parents' residences are considered to be the child's legal residences for the purposes of the provision. This does not apply if the child's 2 legal residences were already more than 100 miles apart at the time the custody order was issued. If a parent has sole legal custody of the child, the 100-mile requirement does not apply. Parents may agree to living in residences more than 100 miles apart. The factors considered by the Court to change a child's legal residence are basically the same four factors used in determining a change of domicile, plus a fifth factor reviewing domestic violence history.

Quick Links
Custody and Parenting time Investigation manual

Michigan Custody Guidelines

Supporting Documents/Forms
Motion for Custody

Change of Domicile Motion
Fee Waiver
Objection to Referee hearing

Frequently Asked Questions
How old does a child or children have to be before they can decide where to live?

When children reach the age of 18 years (or are determined to be emancipated by a judge), they can decide where to live. However, before age 18, Factor (i) of the Child Custody Act requires the court to consider, “The reasonable preference of the child, if the court considers the child to be of sufficient age to express preference.” Judges usually place more emphasis on the preference of the child if the child demonstrates a greater level of maturity and understanding.

Do I have to get the court's permission to move more than 100 miles from my current home if I only have parenting time with my child?
Yes, unless the other parent agrees, both parents were already living 100 miles apart when the judge signed your court order, sole custody was granted to the other parent, or the move results in the child’s 2 legal residences being closer to each other than before the move.
What do I do if I disagree with the Referee's recommendation and Judge's order?
If you have a hearing before the Referee and you disagree with the recommendation and order signed by Judge, you need to file an objection (a written disagreement filed with the court) with the county clerk's office. You have 21 days from the mailing date of the order to file the objection (this date is also listed on the Proof of Service that was attached to your order).
Can I simply call the Friend of the Court and tell the office that my child is now living with me if my ex-spouse and I agree?

No, a call to the Friend of the Court office notifying a staff person of the change does not produce a court order. A phone call or a letter will not stop a child support order, even if the child is now living with the parent paying child support. You will need a modification to your court order. If you and the other parent have informally agreed to a change in custody, and you wish to change the custody order, you should contact the Friend of the Court and ask about the procedures that have to be taken to modify the court order. The friend of the court may request that you and the other parent submit a written statement, stating the exact agreement that you have reached concerning custody, parenting time, and child support. After the Friend of the Court receives the written statement signed by both parents, a formal stipulation may be prepared by the Friend of the Court office. The Friend of the Court office may ask that a parent file a motion asking to formally change the custody order, instead of preparing a stipulation or consent order.

Do I need the Judge's permission to move out of state with my child?
Yes, if you were granted custody of the child, you must receive the Judge’s permission to move out of state. The court normally will approve the move if the other parent agrees and both of you sign a stipulation or consent order (a formal agreement). If the other parent does not agree, you will have to file a motion on your own requesting the court’s permission to move, or hire an attorney to do it for you.
If I want the court to change custody, do I have to hire an attorney?
No, if the court has ordered custody and you are seeking a modification (a change in the order), you may request a Pro-Per Motion for Change in Custody from the Friend of the Court office. If you decide to represent yourself, you will be held to the same standards as any licensed attorney practicing law. You may still hire an attorney after you have filed the Pro-Per Motion, if you wish. The Friend of the Court or the court cannot represent you or give you legal advice. 
How many times can the other parent or I ask the court to review custody?
There is no limit to the number of times the court can review custody. However, a parent who is seeking a custody change has to prove a change in circumstances. If the Judge does not find a change in circumstances, after a motion has been filed for a change in custody, he or she may assess costs to the parent who filed the motion. This is done to prevent parents from filing motions without legitimate reasons. If there is an established custodial environment, a change of custody may be made only on clear and convincing evidence that the change is in the best interests of the child. If no established custodial environment exists, custody may be changed on a showing of a preponderance of the evidence that the proposed custodial arrangement is in the best interests of the child